hell o dear buddies everywhere you are and from! i really really wanna say thanks to everyone who have read my blog or to YOU who's reading mine just right now. you know, you guys are the reason why i keep writing, srsly. everytime i check my stats of this blog and read the records, i know there were you guys reading my blog, what a pleased feeling, no kidding! you totally boost my spirit of sharing.
just so you know, in a real life, i'm not a person who really does like to share my stories, i meanlike what happened/is happening to me. some people might say they see several sides of mebefore and after they've got knowing me better.
strangers will think
friends will think
besties will think
those what i've been heard from the others about me, at least. we can't judge our own self, we can't say we're a good person either. it's undeniable that there ll always be 2 teams of any thing , pros and cons. they don't always agree with you! the things you think they're good doesn't mean they're good for the others as well. but i strongly believe and stay keeping this to my mind, the only person who completely knows yourself is you, not your friends, not the strangers, not your besties, even not your parents. my point here is if you have an opinion, a view or a belief for instance, just hold it strongly but still open your heart and mind to the others. at last you can estimate and decide which the better one is.
sometimes when i feel like to get a self reflection, i won't have any doubt to ask this question to my friends "which of my personalities and behaviors that you like and dislike?" and usually they will ask me the same question back. if they're really your friends, they will answer it honestly, even sometimes they will give an unexpected comeback. i just love to hear their opinions because sometimes it helps a bit to solve private problems between me and friends, for example i could know why this guy/girl particularly doesn't like me and then find a way to fix it. you can try it sometime!
umm now about the new year that’s just about to come in time. good news or bad news?? hmm, both for me.. let me start by explaining why i said it's bad. well, i hate this thing popped in my head just now, AS level examination, yeees, very true, that tortures, those 'merciless' questions will be so extremely distressing to imagine! i'm not saying that the exams are bad but as the new year comes means we're getting closer and closer to them, you know what i mean, rite? sometimes i really wish i could stuck in a moment i enjoyed a lot, wishing the time to be stopped for a while so i don't need to be afraid of going home late. what a dreamer!!haha. am i the only one? hell no way, imposibru!
now, the good part is, oh come on buddies! you know that, new year eve!! yumyum munchies, family gathering, going out with fellas, gifts, fireworks, etc. the awaited moment!! my mom and i already planned some things for the event, like baking and roasting things and we also planned to invite the neighbors, it’s gonna be a killer party. aaand, for me, this is the time to make new resolutions, hoping the next year will be much much better for sure.. keep improving my skills and digging my talents are my priority, another concernis learning other languages, hell yeah I’mtruly interested to be able speaking in other provinces’ language in Indonesia, like sundanese, bataknese, etc.
speaking about language reminds me about my bestie, Richard, if you remember the one-day trip. His dad’s a Singaporean and her mom is half Indonesian, half Dutch. I asked him to teach me how to speak Singlish, damn I like their accent *well, British accent is sexier though!! Haha. I ever be amazed just by listening his dad saying “wahliao! No need. I need to take a breakfast ar, have any idea or not how to go?”
he said it rapidly and it made me think Singlish is cool. Richard said that generally Singlish doesn’t care about grammar, structures, even pronunciation, it obviously seems from the sentence above “have any idea or not” while normally we use “do you have any idea”
and the pronunciation, he told me a funny story about an American and a Sporean who’re chitchatting together while having their breakfast. let ‘A’ be the American and ‘S’ be the Sporean.
S: this fly (fried) rice here is good lor!
A: *confused* are you sure it’s ok if I eat it?
S: ya, of course, I’d take for you la.
A: oh okay. are you gonna eat the same food?
S: no, I ll take the toe (toast)
A: *getting more confused till his sporean friend came back with the toast and fried rice
S: here your food.
A: thanks (fried rice?!)
S: no biggie. *while they’re enjoying their foods* can you help me take the botte (butter)?
A: huh? Bottle?
S: no, botte to spled on the toe
A: ah butter, okay just wait here. #@#!&# lol
I lmao when he told me this story, I’m not mocking the sporean, they’re cool, srsly, but sometimes it’s just hard to understand their words, furthermore they like to insert some Chinese words in daily conversation. It’s not a big deal if we usually use Singlish in daily life.
actually I have some ideas to do next year but I’m not sure if they can be perfectly realized, I will need to cooperate with other people to make them happen. Just wishing I won’t be as lazy as I used to be in this year.
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